Just me and my boyfriendĪ good way to get enough practice in is to get into a relationship. But once you do, it can and should be really great.Ģ) Relationship. It feels a bit like someone has videoed you doing a poo, then pressed rewind… So definitely it takes a while to get over that sensation. I don’t actually think the first few times I bottomed were painful, but definitely odd. Look, the first few times you bottom, it is a really weird experience. Side note: This isn’t a sex blog I’m a comedian not a sexpert, but as I keep reminding you – sex is just one of those things (along with karaoke, lying and getting drunk) that I’m really good at, so I would read it as if it were gospel. I go through real phases though and over the last year have been in a real bottoming phase so arguably I am fully qualified to write this week’s blog. So vers I put the vers in Marvel UniVERSe (a proper gay character at last amirite!). I am actually exactly the right person to do it, because I am vers. Now, before anyone questions my credentials to write columns on both being a top and being a bottom…. Here it is, the natural follow-up to my last blog. Just a very gay man, doing a lot of straight-up gay stuff.